The Parenting Styles That Affect Our Future Behaviors

Abstract In this paper; I would go in to the different parenting styles that could affect the role in our future behaviors. While posing the question what type of styles seem to be more effective with leading us to build healthy relationships. Do your childhood experiences and relationships with our parent’s shape who we turn out to be? Which parenting style is more affective on posing us to be more of model citizens who can identify and keep help relationships? All of these questions surround the different parenting styles that John Bowlby; a psychologist; whom created the concept of attachment. Bowlby not only came up with the characteristics of attachment but also the three propositions that forms the attachment theory; in addition to the four styles of attachment Keywords: Attachment, relationships, characteristics, secure, anxiety Relationships and attachment Styles Raising children can be difficult. 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